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Dating is tricky at the best of times. This past year and a bit has shown us all that there are new ways we can date. As restrictions ease, we’ll be meeting up with a lot more people for dates. This can be a really scary concept for a lot of people, I know it is for me. Try not to worry about it too much. There are things you can do to feel better about it all and feel comfortable, sexy and safe in your dating ventures. Remember to keep everything safe and within the restrictions for your local area.
Feeling Comfortable, Sexy And Safe When Dating
Wear Your Comfiest Underwear
You want to feel sexy, but can you really feel sexy if you are uncomfortable the whole night? Don’t wear underwear that has you feeling itchy or has you fidgeting the whole night. Even with the anticipation of someone else seeing them, it’s not worth suffering for. I can guarantee they aren’t wearing something that makes them feel uncomfortable, so why should you? There are plenty of comfier, but sexy options out there. It’s about finding what works for you. Experiment a bit with underwear until you find something comfortable that makes you feel sexy.
Shop For Your Body
Your body is amazing. You deserve clothes that show it off a bit. Treat yourself to a new outfit that makes you feel sexy and helps you walk with confidence. You might be used to hiding your body a bit, but when better to show it off than on a date? If it’s safe to do so where you live, go to a shop and try on a few different outfits you wouldn’t normally pick for yourself. You may be surprised to find that they make you feel sexier and more confident than your entire wardrobe combined. It’s also good to have a change, it can help it all be a bit easier if you’re excited to show off your new look.
Don’t Be Afraid To Discuss What You’re Into
When you’re on a site like mybdsmhookups it’s important that you’re discussing what you’re into. Not just who you’re into, but what you’re into sexually. Discuss kinks and turn-ons in advance so you know that you’re going to have a good experience with your date. This will naturally help you feel sexier because you’ll be anticipating what’s to come at the end of the date, or on future dates. It may also make you feel safer because you’ve made your intentions clear.
Build Up Your Confidence
There is nothing sexier than having confidence. In fact, I’d argue that it may be really difficult to start dating without enough confidence. There are plenty of ways to build up confidence, from finding a new outfit to positive affirmations there is something that works for everyone. Find what works for you and roll with it. You are amazing and it’s important that other people see that. It will make you absolutely irresistible to your date and as a bonus may even help you in other areas in your life, such as work.
Set Ground Rules So You Can Feel Sexy And Safe
Setting ground rules can be vital to feeling safe. On a site like subsanddoms it can feel even more important. It might feel like overkill, but if it helps you get out there then it’s vital that you do it. Whether it’s “I don’t do this on a first date” or “I only want to see you a couple of times before moving on” you should be setting intentions. It doesn’t just protect yourself when you’re out, it can protect your feelings as well. Your date may feel more comfortable if they know what to expect as well. Once these are set it gives you the freedom to feel sexy on the date instead of worrying about things.
Make Sure You Have Protection
Remember that women can carry condoms too. You want to make sure you’re covered no matter what happens, so bring condoms just in case the date takes a turn for the bedroom. It’s always good practice to do this anyway to protect yourself from any STIs or from pregnancy, however knowing you have that with you can make it easier for you to feel sexy because you won’t be worrying about if they have anything they might pass on.
Give Yourself Time To Feel Comfortable, Sexy And Safe
It’s absolutely fine if you are not ready yet. You might want to wait a while until you’ve had time to settle back into socialising with friends or until you’re back in the office again. It’s important to give yourself the time because you won’t feel comfortable if you’re constantly worrying about something. Sexiness won’t come out if you’re spending the entire date looking around you feeling anxious. You might want to start video dating for a while before taking the plunge back into face-to-face dating. I highly suggest you do this so you don’t get overwhelmed.
Wear A Mask And Bring Your Own Hand Santiser
This might seem obvious, but it is important in order for you and your date to feel safe. If you’d prefer your date to wear a mask for your initial meeting, let them know that. It’s valid to feel nervous about germs, especially if you’re meeting someone for the first time. You don’t know what else they’ve been doing throughout the week so even if it’s just that you want to get to know them better before unmasking set that as one of your ground rules. Of course bars and restaurants are now safe to drink/eat in, but you can tell them to stay on the other side to you if it makes you feel safer.